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Single Mom Looks To Rebuild After Fire Destroys Home

Police collecting clothing, diapers and other donations for woman who lost trailer in Tuesday blaze.

 

When single mom Sarah Stickel moved to the Bogart Ranch trailer park in Mahwah three months ago, she thought her life was finally starting to fall into place.

A year-and-a-half ago, Stickel was living in Missouri with her fiancé. The couple, she said, was happy to learn that Sarah was expecting a child. However, tragedy struck the family when her fiancé was killed in a car accident just one week after finding out he was going to be a dad.

Stickel, who grew up in Ridgewood, made her way back to North Jersey. “There was no reason to stay [in Missouri],” she said. “After Chip died, I wanted to be near my family.”

Seven months ago, Stickel gave birth to a baby girl, Callie. The mom and daughter were staying with family members and friends until they found an available trailer in the Mahwah Park where Sarah’s dad, Tom, has been living for the past two years.

“It seemed like a safe neighborhood that was kid-friendly,” Stickel said. “I was very happy to raise my daughter here.” Over the past three months, the duo began settling in, and Stickel began looking for a job.

The family’s plans came to a screeching halt Tuesday morning.

“At about a quarter after 10 a.m., I smelled smoke coming from the bathroom,” Stickel explained. “I opened the door and saw nothing but white smoke. I went outside, and within a minute I saw flames shooting from the side of the bathroom.”

Stickel ran out of the house with only a purse. Her infant daughter Callie, was with her grandmother, Maureen, at her Ridgewood home, at the time the fire broke out.

“I can’t even tell you how fast the fire broke out and the whole thing unfolded,” she explained. “I ran out of the house with no shoes on, that’s how quick it was.”

Mahwah firefighters extinguished the blaze Tuesday morning, but Stickel’s new home was completely destroyed. The township’s building official has deemed it uninhabitable, and all of the family’s possessions went up in smoke. Officials said the fire was likely caused by a faulty furnace, but an investigation is ongoing.

“It was probably the scariest thing that’s ever happened to me,” Stickel said. “The whole thing is just awful.”

Stickel and her daughter were left with the clothes they were wearing Tuesday morning, and a few items that were salvaged from the home after the fire. “Really one of the only things that made it was my fiancé’s ashes,” she said. “The box I kept them in got singed, but they are actually still here with us.”

Virtually everything else, was destroyed. “The real tragedy is that this was the first place we actually settled our family,” Stickel said. “Before this, I was literally sleeping on people’s couches.” The single mom said she isn’t sure exactly where she will go now, but her immediate plans include staying with her parents, and a trip to the social services office to see if she can be placed in a public housing facility.

Learning of Stickel’s hardship, many of the firefighters and police officers who responded to the fire Tuesday, have already started to help. The MPD’s Mahwah Municipal Alliance donate $150 worth of Shop Rite gift cards for some immediate food and diaper needs for the baby. The Mahwah PBA donated a $300 gift card, and the community group UNICO donated another $250 in gift cards. A firefighter donated a crib for Callie to sleep in, and police officer’s stopped by Stickel’s dad’s house Tuesday afternoon to drop off a new container for her fiancé’s ashes.

“I am not someone who likes to ask people for help,” Stickel said Tuesday evening. “But, already the outpouring of support has been amazing. I can’t even say how much I appreciate it.”

The Mahwah Police Department has set up donation boxes at its headquarters on Franklin Turnpike for locals who want to donate items to help Sarah and Callie.

Items that Stickel said she could use include:

  • Women’s clothing, sizes 14-16 (casual and business attire; “I am gong to need some nice stuff to wear,” Stickel said. “I need to keep going on job interviews.”)
  • Baby clothing, size 18 months
  • Baby formula
  • Diapers
  • Shoes (Women's size 10)
  • Personal hygiene items (shampoo, conditioner, soap, etc)
  • Baby powder
  • Baby wipes
  • High Chair
  • Umbrella stroller
  • Baby bathtub
  • A bed, and other large furniture items – “If someone has a bed to give, I will find a way to get it and store it. I am going to need things like a bed,” Stickel said.

Smaller items can be donated at the police station. Residents with large furniture items to donate should contact the police for more information.

Related Topics: Mahwah Public Safety and Mahwah fire department

Christina D.

9:43 am on Wednesday, April 11, 2012

How about setting up a website so people can also donate money to this unfortunate mother and daughter. Donations using echecks or credit cards would be a great idea.

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Field of Creams Cafe

9:43 am on Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Dear Sarah,
Our heart goes out to you and Callie. To help you through….if you’d like a chance to simply get away for a short time, please enjoy a complimentary meal or snack on us: Field of Creams Café, located in Continental Soldiers Park. We wish you the best of luck.

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Stacey M

12:36 pm on Wednesday, April 11, 2012

I have the baby tub, umbrella stroller and high hair for you. I will leave it at holy cross, where they are taking donations, by Friday. Nour hearts and prayers go out to you.

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Margaret

1:34 pm on Wednesday, April 11, 2012

I'm so sorry this happened to you. I have a pack and play and some other items to donate and I can deliver them on Friday. My thoughts are with you! Margaret W

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Marilyn V

9:11 pm on Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Sarah,
Thank God that you got out safely and you and Callie are both ok and healthy....Lindsey and I are here to help you both any way we can
Marilyn V

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Sarah Stickel

11:32 pm on Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Thank you to everyone for your kind words, donations, and prayers. I don't know how we could have done it without the kindness, loveand support I have gotten from some of those which I have never met. There are no words on how to express our deepest gratitude. We are trying our best to take each day as it comes and we have been trying to keep the faith.. God bless to all!

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Natasha

10:51 am on Thursday, April 12, 2012

Sarah, I left a high chair at the police station and some other baby items. If you need anything please let me know. I have a ton of baby items left over from my 18 month old twins. I would be happy to help.
Praying for you and your daughter.

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Margaret

7:50 pm on Sunday, April 15, 2012

Sarah, I have a loveseat and a couch that I no longer need. The loveseat is in pretty good shape and the couch has been LOVED by 2 boys so it's not in as good condition. If you have a place to store one or both, I'd be happy to give them to you. They're a pretty red/raspberry color with stripes (sounds weird but looks nice). Please let me know if you're interested. I'll check back on this post. I hope you're hanging in there ok!

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Margaret

7:51 pm on Sunday, April 15, 2012

I can also send you a picture of the furniture if you're interested.

Erin Haroutunian

7:18 am on Thursday, April 12, 2012

Sarah,
We have so many people willing to donate for you and Callie. I have stuff coming to my house and my friend is going to get her church involved. I know this must be so hard on you but it has to make you feel good how many people truly care. We are all praying for you and I will do whatever I can to help you.

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Tammy Marcus

6:55 pm on Thursday, April 12, 2012

Sarah,

I am the mom of two girls, I have a tub of clothes that are 12 to 18 months that I would be more than happy to give to you. My older daughter is in Daisy Scout Troop 5201. We are going to be donating as a troop as well. Can you please get back to me with the size diapers that Callie is in??
Although it doesn't seem like it in the face of trajedy, God is hard at work within the community to help you get through this time!

Tammy Marcus

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pam

10:05 pm on Sunday, April 15, 2012

What size diapers?, do you need sippy cups (is she using the straw kind now), kids bowls, etc. I don't have your size 10-12 clothes but goto Clothing Closet Ministry – at Ramapo Reformed Church, 100 Island Road, Mahwah, NJ provide free clothing to those in need, every Wednesday morning from 9:30 AM to noon. Also what type of job are you looking for? perhaps someone in our community could help if it's posted here on the patch!

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pam

10:07 pm on Sunday, April 15, 2012

We have a King size mattress which we could store for you just let us know when you want it if interested (it's 4 years old and high quality) but I'm assuming it's too big.

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Tammy Marcus

11:28 am on Monday, April 16, 2012

Sarah,

Grace United Methodist Church, Wyckoff has been notified of your circumstances. We have sent home fliers with our Sunday school children and have put an insert in our bulletin. Please know we are praying for you and any help we can give please do not hesitate to call. The church office number is 201-891-4595.

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